The
following is transcribed from a tape made by Inez Carlton Johnson and her cousins,
daughters of Gus Barr. We know Evelyn
Puhlman was on the tape and we think her sister Geraldine is on the tape as
well.
“Testing, testing, testing, testing ……”
________“Ok now, we’re getting ready to tape here”……
“Ok…..”
Inez “That’s why I’m glad your here,
because maybe I don’t get it straight”…..
“Well you can……
“Ok, I’ve got to make an address
here”. “It’s all going already-we’re
already taping, so all of this is going on tape”.
“Today is Sunday, August 21st
1988, (oh July, excuse me, I keep saying August), and you are here with Inez
Johnson (Carlton Johnson) the oldest remaining relative on the Barr side of the
family, and she is going to tell us about the old days with my father, her
mother, our grandmother, and some of all of the old things that we haven’t
heard for a long time, and get them all straight and on record. So we’ll
proceed now…”
“Inez, about when did your mother and my dad come over from the old country?”
Inez “He was 10 and she was 8”
“Uh-huh”
“What year do you think that was?”
Inez “Evelyn, am I right on that?”
Evelyn “Dad was ten I know…”
Inez…. “And mother was eight, now
let’s see, mother died in…… let me get
pencil”.
(Do you have the volume up……got a pause
on that?) . We stopped the tape while
we were figuring up.
“Ok now, we decided that they came over in 1884 and Aunt Bertha was 8 years old
and my dad Gus was ten”. “They left the
other 2 children, Aunt Elva Kiley and Aunt Mary Lockie over there, they were
younger, no, one was older and one was younger.
Inez “It was about 2 years after they
came over that Aunt Elva , and Aunt Mary came”.
“I see”
This is correct,
Elva has 1887 on census records.
Inez “Because Grandma was
married and mother always told the story when they came out, they ran out to
meet them, and of course, they spoke in German and she had been a little
Americanized and learned to say “Hello, hello” and they didn’t know what she
was…Uncle Gus was there, and he was so tickled because grandma had a….they were
out on some farm…”
“ Probably near Ipswich or Roscoe”?
Inez “No…”
“In Mitchell”
Inez “I have that story all
twisted up. I’ve heard it from Uncle George - he always had it and he was
always going to…. What do you remember?”
“They came to Mitchell and from Mitchell
they came to Watertown. But Dad was out west at Ipswich you know, he went out
with Uncle Byers”.
Inez “He went to live with them, just
him and Uncle Byers went, Grandma stayed in Mitchell”
“Well, evidently then, Aunt Byer, who was
your mothers sister, (grandma’s sister rather), there were three girls came
together, right, on the boat…”
Inez “No there were only 2 girls. On the boat,
Uncle Gus and Mother were the ones that came with Grandma. ”.
“Where did the Byers come in?”
Inez “They came over alone”.
“Oh I see”.
Inez “And you know that stinking old
brother of Grandma’s, I don’t know which one was it, Adolph or someone, had the
selling of their land and he kept the money and gave them such a little bit to
come over with that Aunt Elva and Aunt Mary often told the story how they sold
some of their things to eat on the boat- I forget how long- it took them
pret’near a month didn’t it? The ship was very rocky, Aunt Elva always said,
but then they landed. Where did they land, New York or Pennsylvania?” Still unknown.
“That was always the
question…Dad couldn’t remember the name where they landed”.
“Was the old Ellis Island in effect then,
the old Ellis Island, you know that’s where all the ships came in the harbor
there”. “I’m sure they went to Pennsylvania where Grandpa was killed. They must
have looked up something there, to see where he was buried”.
Inez “I betcha Grandma Wohlleber never bothered to go to see where he was
buried, because she didn’t have money and she was with Aunt Byers and them and
it was all so strange for Grandma Wohlleber that she just followed with the
Byers. Did they separate in Mitchell? The Byers went to...”
“That’s what dad used to say, that’s why
I thought the Byers came over on the boat with them”.
Inez “They did”.
“Yeah, and then they separated and
Grandma stayed there, got a job, working with this tailor. Right? And Dad and
Uncle Byers went out to Roscoe”.
“Aberdeen first, they bought a cow and a
what else was it, a oxen, or something so they had meat, and a pig..
“And a plow
“So they had something to work with when they got out there, that’s all they
had, and a few eating supplies, flour……
Inez “Then did Grandma come from Mitchell out here near Florence and file
for the claim and she had mother with her and your dad and that was later that
your dad went to Roscoe?” No papers for a claim made by Eva.
“No, right away”
“He came from Roscoe to live with them at
here by Medicine Lake”.
Inez “Oh he did”.
“Yeah”
“It’s on the tape”.
“ So it must have been later… “Did
Grandma marry Mr Wohlleber when she got to
Mitchell? Or when?”
Inez “In Watertown” Looks like wedding picture was in Mitchell.
Inez “Mother and she, they rented a
little room and they lived together.
Grandma Wohlleber did whatever she could, wait table, wash dishes. This was probably
Mitchell.
Mother was only 8 years old, she wanted to go to school, and so she would go
live in with families and get her board and room. And the Bradley’s, the old
Bradley’s out here, they had a farm out here they had a family, money or a farm
or something, they were very mean to Mother, because they’d leave all the work
for her to do, the daughters were raised to think they were too good to work
and mother didn’t stay there, then she went to work for Mrs. Sear”. This Dick
Sear’s grandma is the one that mother went to live with for awhile. And then
along the way, in between there I don’t know what, there was some Dr and his
family that lived here and they wanted Mother to come and live with them, and
they wanted to adopt her, and mother went over there and I can’t remember just
exactly how long it was, but it wasn’t very long she stayed and she got so
lonesome for her mother that one night she got up to these people and she told
them that she wanted to go home to her mother and she was crying so, and she
wanted to go home to her mother and she run where mother was living and she rapt
on the windows and popped on the windows and says “Oh Momma,
Momma, I want to come home to
you”. And Grandma let her stay in”. This was probably Watertown, and Eva was probably married.
“What was Mary and Elva doing then during
this time. ”
Inez “I understood they weren’t here
yet. They were still in Germany, it was two years, then when Grandma had
married Wohlleber, and moved out on some farm, girls….”
“ By Medicine Lake”
Inez “Ok, then old Grandpa Wohlleber
did help with money, mother said, because they didn’t have enough when they
left there…”
“ To get the girls home”….
Inez “So he got the girls here,
helped, but the brother never did send Grandma the money…”
“Adolph Hymen”
Inez “I guess so”.
“Well, maybe he got killed in the war ( I
shouldn’t put that on the tape)”.
Inez
“Mary Beth and Annette Larson went over to Germany, the year they
graduated from college, they took those pictures, and they couldn’t find
anything because it was all devastated from the war you see. But anyway, time
went on with Grandma Wohlleber and Aunt Elva, and mother and Aunt Mary, and I
guess your father was still with the Byers”.
What pictures?
“ He came when they were living at
Medicine Lake, I think, that’s what it said on Dad’s tape”.
Inez “Well I don’t know, he was in
town,
Inez “Didn’t he go from there to
the Leberts?”
(There were Leberts in Codington County, Kampeska Township)
“ I don’t know about that”.
Inez “He worked for the Leberts for
awhile”.
“In his older life, probably his teenage
life, more before he farmed. I think when he left there he came to his
mother and Wohlleber in town because I remember him telling about how he
learned tailoring from his.. Mr Wohlleber”.
Inez “That was a little bit of
history and I really feel bad because, no one took a picture of that cottage
where Claytons is now, and he had his tailor shop in the front and he lived in
the back”
“That was before the Carnegie Library was built or anything yet”.
Inez “Oh yes and there was just
nothing there but his little cottage…”
“And he had a tailor shop”
Inez “And made suits, there was no
such a thing as ready made suits as for men, and he made suits… there was a
judge, a great big man and a judge, in fact he had a chair made for him, cause
no ordinary chair….I had that all in my mind to tell you…. And he married a…….
Bennett, Judge Bennett was his name and he made his suits and he made other
suits….”.
“Probably cost him twice as much as an
ordinary man since he was so large, huh?”.
Inez “Then came along that a man
would come out from some company and make, through this company, made to
measure suits for all the men, like old Bloom and Lovitt, you know, and that’s
what put him out of business and then I guess he went out on the farm, wasn’t
that it?”
“Well, they moved to a farm up by South
Shore, that was on Uncle Will’s tape too, you know we had Uncle Will’s life
history too, and that’s what Uncle Will said, we just played that, that they
moved to South Shore, before they moved into town”. That was later- is there a tape of Uncle Will’s?
“Yeah”
Inez “Well, you heard probably just
as much or not more through your Dad, but I used to listen to Grandma, but we
never talked about it, only when she would get to telling about it and I would
love to hear about it and then what mother would say and….”
“That’s what I would like you to tell us
about, all the stories that Grandma Wohlleber and your mother used to tell us,
they have a lot of things…
Inez “Now which one of them, what was the girl, what was her name that died
over in Germany”
“That’s right, was there one
or two?”
Inez “One is the way I remember,
Evelyn?”
“I thought there was twins over there, Dad used to talk about twins”.
Inez “Were there twins?”
“I don’t remember if they were girls or
boys”
Inez “Well one of them was a girl, I
thought it was one girl”.
“ No there was twins”.
Inez “ And this Grandpa Barr,
whatever he was doing, he used to do a lot of trading, as mother used to tell
it and Grandma Wohlleber, and he was away from home when these children, his
children died, and through the laws of the state, he must have been out of
around where they lived because he had quite a time getting back, and it was
some days before he got back and Grandma Wohlleber took a great big old board
and put (I think it was just one little girl, I don’t remember), but anyway,
laid her out herself and packed her in cold sand until the father got there for
the funeral. That story I remember.”
“ I never heard that one”
“Maybe there was another one plus two twins”
Maybe one of them just died and one lived and died later”.
“Could have been”.
Inez “That it always struck, it was so vivid in mother’s mind, that she
remembered, it was a little girl and he didn’t get home and didn’t get home and
Grandma Wohlleber laid her out herself and packed her in cold, wet sand and
mother would remember how they would go out and get pails of sand”.
“Hmm, what an experience, my goodness”
Inez “That was so clear in Mother’s
mind”
“Must have been very dramatic for her, a
young girl like that…”
Inez “If there were twins…were the
twins born here?”
“No, in Germany”
“Could have been one died then, and maybe one
died later, I don’t know, but I was sure Dad said there were twins…”
Inez “It was so long ago…. “
“I don’t remember hearing that on Dad’s
tape at all, about that part”…
Inez “Where did this child that’s
buried out here….”
“The Wohlleber child”
Inez “Yes, …where did he come in amongst
Grandma’s family?”
“That one was born, while they lived out
by Medicine Lake”
“Well, when did they move to Medicine
Lake? They came from Mitchell and came to
Watertown”.
Inez “George Wohlleber could never
remember”.
“To Medicine Lake after they came from
Mitchell”
“He was born out there near Medicine Lake
and then he died when he was about 2 yrs old, I remember Uncle George saying he
could remember when they took him in this buggy, they must have taken him to
the cemetery to be buried and he said he remembered that trip.” Ernest is in Graceland Cemetery
and so is a Girl Wohlleber- maybe this is where the twins came in.
Inez, “Was he younger than
George?” Yes, 2
years younger.
“ Oh yes, he was just two
years old and Uncle George was like….”.
“ How could she have had all these kids from Wohlleber then, already? Here she is working for Wohlleber in
Mitchell….”
Inez “No, she didn’t ever work for
him in Mitchell, as I know…”
“How come she stopped in Mitchell,
then?”.
Inez “She worked, when he was in the
tailor shop, I never heard that she worked for him,
that’s when she met him, in Mitchell, and then she worked in different
restaurants and that sort of thing, much like wherever you could get work”.
“When he had the tailor shop
here in town, were the Wohlleber boys small then, did they already have….?
Inez “ No, there were no children
cause then he got out of business when these tailoring men….I understood they
weren’t married then, because it was two years, then Grandma Wohlleber was
married, and I don’t think there was any Wohlleber children when Aunt Mary and
Aunt Elva came over. Yes, John was born in 1885.
“ They got married probably after the
children came huh?”
Inez “No, they were married before,
but no children as I remember”.
“That makes sense, I mean if
he couldn’t make a go of it in the tailoring business, he’d have to go to
something else, so why would he go to the farm and then come to tailoring…”
Inez.
“Isn’t that where they went, this claim that she filed on when she came over
from Germany?”
“I don’t remember that part… “I thought she stayed in Mitchell and that’s
where she met him, I thought they were married there and then they came to
Medicine Lake to farm”
“Unless they came to Watertown first and then went to Medicine Lake.”
“ This is very vivid, about her
remembering the tailor shop and everything…”
“Then he went to Watertown to that farm or did they go to the South Shore one?’
“ It’s on Uncle Will’s tape”.
Inez “I thought they weren’t married while he was in the tailor shop,
because he lived in the back and as I told you, mother worked at different
places, then when the business went out, then the farm business came up and
where that was I didn’t know. Does it
tell anything about that in your Dad’s?”
“Uncle Will said something about that,
where they went, so I think that’s on that tape of Uncle Will’s”
Inez “Uncle Will didn’t say they were married in Mitchell did he?”
“No, he didn’t say anything about that”.
“Isn’t there a copy of these birth
certificates and marriage certificates and all that someplace? Too early- and no church records in Mitchell in the Lutheran German
church.
Inez “Probably not, never saw such things, I don’t
think they ever recorded things did they?”
“Oh, they must have…” “ It would seem
like it, I don’t know…”
Inez “ I don’t suppose you could ever
find anything …”
“That would be under Dakota Territory
then you know”
Inez “ I don’t suppose you could ever
find anything in the courthouse…”
“
I doubt if they’d be recorded in the courthouse”. “You think they were married in Watertown?”
Inez “The way I understood it”
“You’d have to look at the courthouse
records and see if they have anything of Dakota Territory yet on file, they
sometime keep old records don’t always throw things away, unless they have a
fire, it would be interesting to go back and research that…Now what?” “I just
need another month”
Inez “Now where are we? Aunt Mary came over, then Aunt Elva went to
work in a hotel, she was 17 when she came over and Aunt Mary was 8. Because
mother often/Grandma often told, she was a little five year old, and going to
be six when she left her in Germany with her mother”.
“And Dad always said the oldest one was
ready to be confirmed and she had to finish her lessons over there before that
she could come”
Inez “She was 15”
“Yeah”
Inez “And during those years, she was
17 years old, almost 17 and Aunt Mary was almost 8 and ….”
“ Where did Aunt Elva meet Jim Kiley,
must have been not too many years that she met Jim Kiley then, if she was 17,
how old was she when she was married?
Inez “That I can’t tell you, she
must have been 18 or 19, they were a young couple and mother was married when
she was 18 and was working with somebody, well mother worked all the time until
she was married, and my father bought grain out at Grover, and that’s where she
met him.”
“He was a grain buyer”
Inez “And then they went to ND, my
father left Grover and went to town of Hannock/Hanton, north of Grand Forks,
that’s where they first started, then
transferred to Larrimore, that’s where I was born” .
“And you’re the oldest”
Inez “And Aunt Elva , I don’t know
where she was …I know this, that I was five years old and my mother had not
seen her mother in 5 or 6/7 years and so she wanted to home to see her
mother, there was Lowell and I, me and
Lowell and the little solder brother Ernest, imagine, she brought him and he
wasn’t 2, because I was 5 going on 6. When I was a year and ½ when Lowell came
and when Lowell came, I was 1/1/2 and when Lowell was 1 year old, Ernest came, so mother had 3 in 2 years and a
half. Yeah-yeah-you see what kind of babying I got!”
“You had to take over and be the oldest
helper didn’t you?”
Inez “Then, when I was about 5 or 6
we came to Watertown to see Grandma Wohlleber and they were living on some
farm”.
“How did you come?”
Inez
“On a train, and they were living on some farm, it seemed to me that it
was South Shore”
“Could be”
Inez “And Aunt Elva was living here
and Uncle Jim was working for Elfie Schoener, Elfie Schoener had a cigar
factory down there on Kemp, around about the Star Laundry and Uncle Jim made
cigars and worked for him, then they moved away from here and went to Redwood
Falls (isn’t that right) in Minnesota. And Ed was the oldest, then Ella came
and then Uncle Jim went in the liquor business and then he came back here and
went into some saloon”.
“ What year was it that he bought the
Grand Hotel?”
Inez “ Well, I was married in 1914
and they were in the hotel at least 2 years cause they were quite well
established. Aunt Mary lived in Aberdeen. But I must tell you along the way,
that Aunt Mary, after mother was married, came to live with her, in Larrimore
ND. I was born and she was expecting Lowell, and Aunt Mary met Uncle Nick and
oh, he was quite the flower of the town, because he made ladies clothes, and
oh, he was picked up by, what you call, the higher, not the better people, but
say people who had money. He was bound to have a wedding, and a white wedding,
he was going to have a white suit and he wanted Aunt Mary to have a pretty
little white dress and Mother put on the wedding…they were married in a church,
I think it was the Presbyterian Church and Uncle Nick had a little room, I
suppose where he did all his ladies tailoring and everything, and mother being
pregnant with my brother Lowell, she put on the wedding dinner, she often told
about that, how many angel foods she made and she made chicken and she often
told about that, and she told about Aunt Mary’s dress. Somewhere we used to
have a picture of it but it was white and had pretty little pink and orchid
flowers, kind of a “Big Bertha” thing, Uncle Nick made it. They lived in a
little small roomed apartment and somewhere I’ve got the picture of them in
their little apartment, Uncle Nick, had a piano, they were very musical you
know, and they were sitting there at this piano and Aunt Mary had her arm on
him and she on him, and then of course Clarence was coming and then they had to
get a different place. But she lived with Mother….
Mother was married in what year did I say, but anyway…”
“You have another brother George…”
Inez “That was way later, I was 8 or
9 years old before George came, we were in York N.D. then, but I’m trying to
think of Aunt Mary and Uncle Nick. Oh, OK, either Aunt Mary was hungry to come
back here to be with her people or whether Uncle Nick didn’t have any more
business or what, oh he liked the best of everything, and whether they couldn’t
come up with meeting it, whatever, but anyway, they came back to Watertown,
where did they go, girls, if you remember, your father was on the farm.. and
they came and kept house for him!
“They kept house for them? Before Dad was
married? How long were they there with
Dad? That was on the home place? He bached it there for awhile, I
remember him saying that….”
Inez “In the meantime, Grandma had more kids, more Wohlleber kids, and so
forth and so on, had many hard years, my they had hard years out there, like
now, you meet with conditions…and let me tell you…”
“We stopped with Grandma Wohlleber… How old was her family when they moved to
town, in that little cottage?”
Inez “Aunt Elva and Uncle Jim were in
the Grand Hotel. We had been here, we came in 1919 and Grandpa Wohlleber died
in 1920”
“ Oh”
Inez “Because George Wohlleber took
him to Rochester, you remember hearing, he had this great big thing on his
neck, and they took him to Rochester, George took him down and he did fine and
he contracted pneumonia and George Wohlleber called the Grand Hotel and talked
to Uncle Jim and told him the stand of things and to tell George to come down,
he didn’t want to be there alone.
Inez
“So my Dad boarded the train that night and when Dad got there he
couldn’t be saved, he got pneumonia and so then he came back with Grandpa
Wohlleber’s body with Uncle George”.
“Uncle George who?”
Inez “Wohlleber”
“Was he old enough by then, how old was
he then?”
Inez
“That was in 1920”.
“How old was Uncle George?”
Inez “Well, they moved to town,
Violet”. Grandma and Grandpa Wohlleber had moved to town, in late fall or early
fall and he went to Rochester in January. She hadn’t been down there very long,
had she?
Evelyn “I don’t remember, I was only five
years old then when this happened, I remember somebody fell down the stairs
about that time”
“Aunt Byers, in that little house, mother
and I were there, that was about the same time,
just before the funeral”
Inez “If I remember rightly, Grandma Wohlleber got sick, I can’t remember if she got to go to the
funeral, after the funeral mother stayed with her because no one could leave
her alone, and mother got the flu and she was down there oh so sick for quite
awhile. Grandma didn’t stay very long, until next fall, then am I right in
saying that she came to live with us?”
“That’s what I was going to say”. “And that was in the house over here already.”
Inez
“No it was on the first cottage we lived in up on NE”.
“It was kind of a duplex”.
Inez “She came there and she was
living with us when mother got the word that Lowell had drowned”.
“I remember.”
Inez
“And mother couldn’t – those days girls, they used to bring the body
home you know, and she had Lowells body into her home. I was teaching and my
husband was managing a store in ND, we had been out for a ride, it was a wicked
looking Sunday, on the way back, it was just black. I was pregnant with
Betty, it was 1921and I looked at those
black clouds and I remember saying to myself that it was wicked. We drove up, we didn’t have a car…”
“What were you driving?”
Inez
“We went with friends”.
“ Oh, I see”.
Inez “And we drove up in front of The Farmers Cooperative Store that Tom was
managing and this fellow was in the bank and we drove up and parked, and this
banker came out and said to stop by the car and said “Mrs Johnson, your brother
drowned”
“Oh how cruel”
Inez
“On a Sunday night- there had been a terrible storm here in
Watertown…so.. Tom wanted to get full details and get all about it and all
about it and I went prit’near crazy…”
“Where did he drown?”
(ok that one is going now)
Inez “That was the 20st day of May and the next day
was the 21st and my mother, on a Monday morning goes to the door and gets that
telegram about Lowell and the next day was Tuesday and the telegram boy came
again and handed her the telegram and it was from the government and they said
“The body of Ernest P Carlton will arrive at Holocome?, New Jersey the 26/ 27th
day of May”. Well, poor mother, she just
couldn’t stand that cottage up there, that was
Mrs Heathcoats cottage, (well now, Earl’s mother-mother Heathcoat)”
“Well, just a minute, before we get any
further, on the brother that was killed overseas in the war- Ernest-how long
had it been from time he was killed until they shipped his body home?”
Inez “He died in 1918 and his body got in here in 1921”.
“That had to be right after your other
brother was killed/drowned”
Inez “My brother Lowell that was
drowned was buried the 25th day of May and all this time poor mother
sat there waiting to hear from the government. In the meantime, this duplex on
Broadway was for rent, mother couldn’t stand the cottage after they brought
Lowell’s body in the front door, she
just couldn’t stand it, so we moved, oh she was he movingest women you
know, that ever was. All right, we got over here and we called it the Tappen
duplex on North Broadway right along here, and then we got another word from
the government that they were leaving New York
or Pennsylvania or someplace and his body would be in Chicago and from
Chicago to Minneapolis and they told the day that it would be would be June 12th,
and I must tell you there was a man, a solder that accompanied the body from
New York to Chicago, Chicago to Minneapolis, and another man, he was the one
who came with the body from Chicago. We lived up there in the duplex and mother
was…. Dad wanted the body opened but Shaw said no, but mother left it to Dad
and Dad didn’t want it so bad, he was the 2nd solder to be brought
back to Watertown, however he was not a Codington County soldier but they
honored him as the 2nd soldier.
“His name is not down there on the
courthouse marker,it’s not there, they should put that name on there…”
Inez “He was a North Dakota boy”…
Yeah
Inez “But they should put it on. But
I must tell you girls, that we had the funeral Flag Day, June 14. At that time
great military rights were given a solder (you said remember, didn’t you, you
went?) The funeral was in the Methodist Church, they all couldn’t get in, they
had to have part of them out in the courthouse, that time they put the body on
a casson driven by horses. Hot! It was
like one of these 100 day things, and Earl Hurnt and Ed Kiley were two of his
pallbearers. I think, well I guess the legion put in the other ….. They walked down Kemp Avenue, everyone in
the stores were out in front and the flags were at half mast and Mother, Dad
and I rolled in behind the casson, you now what a casson is? And the “Pax” man played and Mother turned to
Dad “Dad, wouldn’t Bizzy love to know he was being honored?”
Inez
“So every flag day, every Armistace day when those bells and things
would whistle the war was over, because, here we lived in little York, and the
war was over, my brother that drowned was in Towner and he wanted to know the
minute we heard anything from Ernest and of course my Dad let him know and oh,
he says “I’m coming right home, I’ll be
home tomorrow, Dad”. And so, we heard the whistles and trains, we lived on the
main line of the Great Northern,
whistles just blew, blew, blew… and we said
“Now our Bizzy will come home, now our Bizzy will come home, and about 3
in the afternoon, the dept agent.. I happened to be looking out the window I
saw him coming down the street and I thought Oh-oh and here he was at our door
and he stood there at the door his great big tears running down his cheeks and
I said “Is it Ernest?” “Yes”. My Dad had gone to the county seat to pick up
the boxes that you could send the Christmas stuff over seas and he wasn’t home,
there was Mother and I, and I turned to mother and I’ll never forget it, I
says, “Mother, you’re not going to like this,,,,” but Grandma… lived with us when Lowell was
brought back and she was still there when Ernest, no she didn’t go right away
up on Broadway, she went to the Grand Hotel and Grandma Kiley was there too,
Uncle Jim’s mother..
“Oh I see, uh-huh…you were telling about those two ladies, go ahead
and tell that story again”
Inez “You’ve heard me tell that a
dozen times…., well anyway Grandma Wohlleber and Grandma Kiley used to sit down
there in the lobby and those two old ladies and they were awfully cute, and
they just loved to talk about the war and everything and traveling salesman
would come up and talk to them. So, I happened to be down there that evening
having supper with ______ and I was sitting in the lobby waiting for her and
these men were talking to Grandma Kiley and Grandma Wohlleber and I said to
Grandma Kiley/ Wohlleber “Now there’s a
boyfriend for you” and she raised up her hand and said “Inez, Inez, for what I want a man to sleep
on mine shirttail? You heard it Violet…”
“And I thought after 13 kids you wouldn’t …..”
“She knew”
Inez “Oh she was so cute-she just
raised her hands…She came back to live with us while we were in the duplex, I
think or don’t I, no I was wrong, she stayed there until they moved to
California”
“Didn’t she stay there until Uncle Jim
went to California, is that when she went to the Ritz?”
Inez “And so did Grandma Kiley”
Isn’t that when she went to the Ritz? No.
Didn’t she live with you before she went to the Ritz or after…..
Inez “Now that that period of time, I can’ t…I think she came to live with
us, I’m trying to think where we lived, did we live down on the Waddel house?
Or that church, next to the church?
Inez Wasn’t that when you were in the
high school, and you were down on 1st Ave, and she came to live with
us there.
Then after that she lived in the Ritz
apartments. But first she lived in the Liebert building,
up above the Harbor Bar.
Quite a place, to put Grandma above the Harbor Bar, cockroaches, oh…….
Where’d we leave the Wohllebers, out on the farm?…..
Before
“Well Grandma was in town then when she lost
her husband, all the Wohllebers had made their way more or less, right, I know
some, getting back to the younger days, I know that some of the Wohllebers went
to Grover school, it’s in the records in the Grover book, they must have stayed
with Grandpa/Dad. Aunt Emma, Will and
Fred, it’s in the book that they went to school in Grover. Was that before Dad
and Mother were married?
Yes. OK then he had lots of people
visiting before he was married.
Did Grandma live with Uncle George out on
the farm?
Inez Not that I remember for awhile,
out on the farm.
After Grandpa died, I always thought…
Inez “Not that I remember, because
Violet…”
“She had a house in town”. “That was on 4th street”. Cause I know
they used to tip the toilet every Halloween”
Inez “She didn’t stay very long after
Grandpa died, that fall, he died in Jan, she didn’t want to say there to tend
to the fires, someone had to be with her, she wasn’t capable of it, you know, I
wouldn’t make that sure”.
“But she lived in lived in 2 different
houses, she lived in that one on 4th street and she lived on that
one down here on Maple..”
Evelyn: “She had two house, I’ m not sure if she lived in both…”
“She had that ….”
Inez “Violet dear, I’ll contradict
you on that, why, because Grandpa Wohlleber came to town to buy the house, and
Grandma didn’t want to go in, “Well Pa I trust you, you pick me out a nice
house with a BR”
“That was the one on 4th Street”
Inez “No, that was the one on
Maple”… “Ok, so Grandpa Wohlleber goes
to Uncle Jim and these people with name of Schultz wanted to sell that house
awful bad, it had no bathroom, just a little bit of cottage, so on a day or two
after the deal was made, and so forth and so on Grandma says, “Pa, you take me
to town, I want to see the house” (you remember that-I remember the story), and
he takes her to town and takes her to see the house and she looks at it from
the outside and he took her in the front door and she said “Pa, Pa, for what
you buy this house, I will not live here and there’s no bathroom.” She would not move, she would not move….”
“But they owned the house”
Inez “Yes, they owned the house, but she never
lived in it. So then, this other house was on 4th street, was by the
cottage, you girls were….”
“Mildred Munson lives there now”
Inez “Yes she lives there now, I
stopped there one night, but they bought it from, what was that fellow that
used to be, he was some relation of Mrs. Argabrite, they bought it from him,
she would not move in that, so they had to buy another house, she was so mad,
that was bad enough, cause she had dreamed of coming to town and living in a
house that she had had in her mind, of course”.
’This one had a bathroom then, on 4th
street it must have been the house on Maple that got tipped over all the
time”. “I remember Owen and Edger had to
go and set that up so many times- the
last time they done it they moved that toilet back and they covered up the hole
with sod and…”
Inez “Violet, she never lived it
in”
“No, but it was her property, I’m telling
what they done on Halloween, they always tipped it over, so Edgar and Owen went
it and moved that toilet off of that
hole and moved it off the hole it was setting on and they covered up that hole
so it looked like grass on top and then they went away and they watched that
night, and those guys came to tip over the toilet and fell in that hole”
Inez “I want to tell you something girls, they rented that place, and
rented that and there was always undesirable people got in there and wouldn’t
pay rent, and they would come to the dorr, by that time, Grandma Wohlleber was
with us then, and mother and she would go down and dig at that house, and no
rent : they never did sell it, until…
“Remember Elizabeth Jens____ , they bought that” “On 4th
street? “No, that’s on Maple” “Maple and
what” “Maple, right on the corner, they fixed it up pretty good, they
remodeled”
Inez “Mother always wanted to buy that house and fix it up and live in it
and I said “Oh mother, what would you do down there alone”
So when did you move over here on 2nd
street?
Inez, “ Oh my world, Geraldine, we
lived in houses, and houses and houses….”
Geraldine “You know what I remember, one
of the first things I remember about my childhood and Betty and you….when you
lived on other side of town, on Broadway,
the Wadell house, you had a birthday party for Betty, we all made crepe paper
dresses, do you remember that, they were all different pastel colors, we had to
make the ruffles, and crinkles around the bottom and I don’t know how we
stitched them on, by hand I suppose, maybe we pasted them all, but we all had
these crepe paper dresses, all decorated up and I came to one of Betty’s
birthday parties…I never forget that…..
Inez “Was that the year your mother gave Betty a little white dog with a
big pink bow on it?”
Geraldine “Could be, we used to raise those white
collies, could be, I don’t remember that part of it, but I remember the crepe
paper dress, I thought, boy, we better not get near the candles we’ll all catch
on fire…”
Inez “Grandma Wohlleber was in the
Grand Hotel when Eunice and Wilber were married. They had a fuel and coal business and later
went bunk. Eunice and Wilbur moved in
with the old folks down on 2nd street SW in a little room”.
“That’s the house he still
has…”
Inez “It’s all remodeled now, it
looks so nice”
“Did he sell it yet, he still has the
house?”
Inez “No they moved out of there, the
cottage where Wilbur and Eunice lived was mother McBath’s and so they agreed to
buy it, whether they did or not, anyway Wilber got it and that’s where they
still live…”
Inez Aunt
Elva and Uncle Jim, I will say this girls, that Uncle Jim Kiley was wonderful
to Grandma Wohlleber…
I think he was pretty good to everybody,
seems like he always had people there at the hotel ….
Inez “When we landed in
Watertown, I often think of that, in 1919 girls, and we had sold out the things
we didn’t want to bring along from York, and Tom had just got back the first of
June from the war after being gone 2 years and ½ , and mother wanted to come to Watertown , she had to get to Watertown
because she wanted her son Ernest, solder boy,
buried in Watertown, she didn’t want him in York, and I can readily see,
cause she wanted to, she was very lonesome for her people, Aunt Mary, Aunt
Elva, your Dad and her mother out here, who wouldn’t be?”
That’s right
Inez “Well anyway, I’ll tell you, we
lived, when we first came then we got a house, we stayed with Uncle Jim in the
Grand Hotel, imagine he put up with us, mother and I and dad, Tom said for me
to go with them because he was going out to get a job, he was just out of the
Army, he’d been in the Phillipines for 2 years and a half. She had this all planned, before we knew when
Tom was coming home from the service, so he said you go on and go with your
mother, so I went with Mother and Dad. We stayed in the Grand Hotel, imagine,
for a month, and then it was on Mrs Heathcotes cottage up on NE, and we lived
there practically, let’s see 1918 till
1921-right?”
Sounds about right.
Inez
“Yeah, because Betty was coming. And then we lived in the duplex about 2
years and the place was too hard to heat, so then we moved back up on the north
side, in a little house, a nice little house, and mother didn’t like that, we
lived there maybe not 2 yrs, then we moved down on Broadway where Aunt Mary
used to live, up at about 7 or 800 block, it was old man….
That’s North Broadway or south Broadway?
Inez
“North. Then I got this job at Paulis’s, but Mother thought it was too
far for me to walk all the time…so we moved down the Waddel house on First
Avenue”.
Evelyn “Didn’t you live on Maple there,
where the telephone office was, next to that great big house, that was a
parsonage…?”
Inez “Yes, we moved into that house,
that house, I’m getting ahead of my story, we moved from that house down to the
big house next to the Episcopal church, then a Mr Micheals, a real estate man,
sold it because it belonged to somebody else, then we moved down to the Waddel
house and my dad died when were living in the Waddell house, then we moved to
the May Apartments.”
“Where are they? I remember they…Across
from the Messer, west of the Elks”…
Inez And I want to tell you
girls the cockroaches were so bad it was awful. Then there came this nice house
down on 2nd avenue SE, the Horsewell house, and so we moved down
there. Tom was traveling for some coffee house or something and we were there 2
years and half and Mr Horsewell was out on a state house and a state job and
they were coming back because he didn’t get re-elected, so we moved again to
the house over here on 2nd avenue and we were there 45 years.
“45 years- I liked that house,that was
neat- it was fun..”
Inez “That ended the moving. My Dad
had died when we lived down in the Horsewell house, that was the year you
graduated, because you graduated from high school ….
“In 33”……
“Well that’s a good
interesting story we went through…
Inez “Well, listen, if there’s
anything….I kind of forgotten, I tried to but, ..Then Uncle Jim, (if you
remember was it 1924/1925) went out got out of the Grand Hotel, business got
awfully dull…
What year was that?
Inez “No, Betty was 5 years old, so
was Jim, Jim was born in 1922…..”
“I was born in 1924 and my mother stayed
at the Grand Hotel in Jan cause it was such a bad winter before I was born”
Inez “1924? Then it was 1923 that….”
…
“So he still had it in ‘24”
Evelyn “Yes, cause mother was staying
there, I remember that”
Inez “Anyway, I’ll tell you, I’ll
never forget the day we moved in over there, of course it was old, after living
in the nice Horsewell house, I just cried and cried and cried, 45 years we
lived there, then Tom you see came and we went into the Palace….